{"id":2709,"date":"2015-03-02T06:54:38","date_gmt":"2015-03-02T06:54:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.internationaldiplomat.com\/?p=2709"},"modified":"2015-03-02T06:54:38","modified_gmt":"2015-03-02T06:54:38","slug":"the-best-teacher-you-ever-had-failure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/12h71.com\/?p=2709","title":{"rendered":"The Best Teacher You Ever Had\u2026. Failure"},"content":{"rendered":"

What do we do when we succeed at something? We cheer, pump our fists, go out and celebrate, splash the cash. However small or huge the success is, we bask in the glory of the moment and set our expectations higher than before, hoping for more and bigger adrenaline rushes in the future.<\/span>
\nBy it\u2019s nature, success is corruptive because it triggers thoughts of invincibility and allows complacency to creep in to our behaviour; we get a sense of unjustified entitlement to automatic success. All of which may cause our downfall in the future.<\/span>
\nFailure however, is an entirely different matter. When this unwanted visitor calls on us we feel shock, disappointment, sadness, depression even. But sooner or later, we tend to sit up and analyse where we went wrong, draw lessons from the experience, pick ourselves up and get on with life. Essentially, we learn from the experience and become stronger, tougher, wiser and generally more experienced. <\/span>
\nOf course, no one sets out to fail or welcomes failure but; what we need to recognise is that failure is a much better teacher than success. We need to welcome failure as an essential building block of our future success. Sure, failure tastes horrible; so does medicine, but we take it because we have been conditioned from a young age that it is good for us. <\/span>
\nI believe we should teach our young people to plan for success, prepare to accept failure and draw life lessons from it. I also believe we must teach them to do less fist pumping when they succeed and analyse where they went right.<\/span>
\nRudyard Kipling\u2019s poem \u201cIF\u201d has a very apt segment which sums up this point well:<\/span><\/p>\n

If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

And treat those two impostors just the same;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

If you can bear to hear the truth you\u2019ve spoken<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

And stoop and build \u2019em up with worn-out tools:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u2026\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2026\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Yours is the Earth and everything that\u2019s in it,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

And\u2014which is more\u2014you\u2019ll be a Man, my son!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Here is to \u2018failure\u2019!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

What do we do when we succeed at something? We cheer, pump our fists, go out and celebrate, splash the cash. However small or huge the success is, we bask in the glory of the moment and set our expectations higher than before, hoping for more and bigger adrenaline rushes in the future. By it\u2019s
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